The rust-analyzer update will need more work as it seems to break rust
analysis on windows.
This was carried out using `cargo upgrade` from `cargo-edit`:
* getting exclusions options for rust-analyzer with
```bash
cargo upgrade -i --dry-run | grep -o 'ra_ap_\S\+' | sort -u | sed 's/^/--exclude=/' > /tmp/exclude
```
* running
```bash
cargo upgrade -i $(cat /tmp/exclude)
misc/bazel/3rdparty/update_cargo_deps.sh
```
* The ungram file is now taken from the rust-analyzer dependencies
pulled in by bazel
* the grammar parsing code is not published, so it must be taken
directly from rust-analyzer code. That part should be less prone to be
updated than the ungram file, so it does not necessarily need to be
in sync with the rust-analyzer version is used elsewhere.
* both need some patches. The former is patched during build, the latter
during loading in `MODULE.bazel`.
